Rebecca's Reflections

Choosing Hope (My One Word 2012)

2012-02-15T16:37:00.000-06:00

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I began contemplating My One Word for 2012 in late November, but couldn't really find one that seem to fit. Then I read an article about choosing your One Word by considering what one thing you need the most.

Well, that made it simple because the word "Hope" immediately came to mind.

Why was hope such an urgent need? Because I was finding myself entering 2012, a time of a new beginning, stressed out, burned out and honestly, without hope. Sure I had head knowledge that Jesus is my hope, but somewhere in the midst of the discouragements of life and being disappointed by others, I had lost my heart knowledge of my hope in Christ.

I was struggling to see God's hand in my life. I was overwhelmed because nothing in my life seemed to change. I was procrastinating doing things I knew I should do because I didn't think it would make a difference anyway. I felt stuck and helpless. My lack of hope had neutralized me. It was affecting me physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I wanted my hope back so I would be free from doubt, fear, discouragement, bitterness, criticism and jealousy. Not a pretty list, is it? But the by-products of hopeless are an ugly collection of emotions and attitudes.

I was ready to be free of hopeless. I believed hope was the key to things I desired in my life...a stronger faith and a deeper sense of peace, joy and contentment.

Six weeks into this year my attitude and outlook are completely different all because I chose HOPE! Choosing hope is the catalyst for change.

I'm excited to see what God does the rest of this year in my life through My One Word.

Linking with Life Unmasked and Spiritual Sunday.

Facing My Writer's Block

2012-02-14T11:12:00.000-06:00

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I love to blog since I find it much easier to express myself in writing than verbally. With public speaking (even in small groups) I struggle to find the right words to say. When I'm writing that never happens. The words flow abundantly.

But there's one thing that can cause my writing to sputter and falter. It's when I begin to compare my work to others. The mental comparison can happen so quickly before I realize what's happening, and my mind is flooded with thoughts of doubt and discouragement. If left unchecked, the words will become bottled within me to avoid the possible scrutiny of others.

This has happened recently.

I know it's not fair to me to compare myself to anyone else. Jesus reminds me that I'm incomparable.

I realize that the negative thoughts are the lies of Satan. The enemy is attacking my weakness -- my need to please others, to fit in, to excel at whatever I do.

I also know that if I stop writing that the devil will win the battle. He will have eliminated one way that I worship the Lord.

So with this knowledge and the strength of the Holy Spirit I will continue to write for as long as the Lord wants. I will share my words with you despite any fears and insecurities that I may have. Because even though my writing helps me in my spiritual walk, I don't believe God wants me to keep them to myself.

Do you share my struggle? How do you handle the temptation to compare yourself to others?

Linking with On Your Heart Tuesday, Soli de Grace and Commit2Write.

Vessel

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But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands;

so the potter formed it into another pot,

shaping it as seemed best to him. Jeremiah 18:4

Lord,
Make me into a useful vessel for You. Give me a spirit that will always yield to You.
Amen

Linking with Then Sings My Soul.

A Prayer For Every Year

2012-01-07T09:30:00.000-06:00

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1000 Gifts - 631 to 640

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631. Being able to stay home on a cold, dreary day
632. Getting 12 hours of sleep (didn't realize how exhausted I was)
633. God's responsiveness - Jeremiah 29:12
634. Safety while driving
635. The dentist being able to see me an hour before my scheduled appointment

636. Good report from the dentist
637. Everything coming together and working out for those things that had to be done on the last work day of the year
638. A friend's brother being safe after being involved in a 40 car accident on the interstate
639. Finding Memverse to help me memorize Scripture
640. Having an extra pair of contacts

Emmanuel

2011-12-31T09:30:00.000-06:00

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His Word Friday - December 30, 2011

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Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.

See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?

I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.

Isaiah 43:18-19

Linking with Nicole at Coming Alive in Christ.

Happy Birthday, Jesus

2011-12-24T10:00:00.000-06:00

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A Strange Way To Save The World

2011-12-17T09:30:00.000-06:00

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In His Word Friday - December 16, 2011

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For to us a child is born, to us a son is given,

and the government will be on his shoulders.

And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,

Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

Of the increase of his government and peace

there will be no end.

He will reign on David's throne and over his kingdom,

establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness

from that time on and forever.

The zeal of the Lord Almighty will accomplish this.

Isaiah 9:6-7

Linking with Nicole because some days I don't have much to say, but God's Word always speaks volumes.

2011 Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #24

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Whatever happens, conduct yourself in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Philippians 1:27

For more information about the Siesta Scripture Memory Team, visit Beth.

What Is Christmas?

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I believe that this is the busiest time of the year. With all the Christmas preparations it's easy to lose focus on the real meaning of Christmas.

Christmas is not about shopping, decorating, menu planning or going to parties. All of these are good things, but in the midst of it all, don't miss out on the best that this season has to offer.

Christmas is about...

Family - God created a family for Jesus with Mary and Joseph, and because Jesus came to earth as a baby and grew up to become a man who would die on the cross for our sins, we can be a part of God's family.
Relationships - Without Jesus we have no chance to have a relationship with God.
Love - It's the reason why Jesus left heaven to come to earth to save us from our sins and to give us the ultimate gift -- eternal life.
God's sovereignty - No man, not even Herod, could stop God's plan to provide salvation for all.
God's faithfulness - God had promised a Savior for years and in His perfect timing He kept that promise.
Patience - Some like Anna waited years for the Messiah. We will not always get what we want when we want it. Like Anna, we must learn to wait patiently on the Lord to provide exactly what we need.

What is Christmas to you? What are you doing this season to remember the real meaning of Christmas?

Linking with Spiritual Sundays and On Your Heart Tuesday.

O Holy Night

2011-12-10T09:30:00.000-06:00

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His Word Friday - December 9, 2011

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But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel,

whose origins are from of old, from ancient times.

Therefore Israel will be abandoned until the time when she who is in labor

gives birth and the rest of his brothers return to join the Israelites.

He will stand and shepherd his flock in the strength of the Lord,

in the majesty of the name of the Lord his God.

And they will live securely, for then his greatness will reach

to the ends of the earth. And he will be their peace.

Micah 5:2-5a

Linking with Nicole at Coming Alive in Christ.

The First Noel

2011-12-03T08:30:00.000-06:00

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His Word Friday - December 2, 2011

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Multitudes who sleep in the dust of the earth will awake: some to everlasting life, others to shame and everlasting contempt. Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars for ever and ever. Daniel 12:2-3

Linking with Nicole at Coming Alive in Christ.

2011 Siesta Memory Verse #23

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My shield is God Most High, who save the upright in heart. Psalm 7:10 (NIV)

Linking with Beth as I hide God's Word in my heart.

1000 Gifts - 606 to 630

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606. Jeremiah 31:3
607. Peace from God
608. Friend's husband's surgery went well
609. God's protection of my stepdad when his truck left the interstate into the median (he was not injured)
610. Warm soup on a cold night

611. A pantry full of food
612. Seat warmers for the leather seats in my car
613. Extra blankets on the bed on cold nights
614. A Christmas card from my cousin that included a CD of Christmas songs
615. Samantha's post which so accurately described my feelings this week and the knowledge that I'm not the only one

616. God bringing Nehemiah 8:10b to my attention over and over again
617. God's reassurances of His love and faithfulness to me
618. Talking to a friend who recently moved and keeping up with her adventures in her new hometown via Facebook
619. God is love
620. Laughter in the house when my family gathers together

621. Watching my family members open their Christmas gifts
622. Playing with my niece and nephew with their new toys
623. Mercy - God not giving me what I deserved
624. Grace - God giving me what I didn't deserve
625. Jesus coming to earth and taking on human form so He could live the life that I should have and bear the penalty that should have been mine

626. Talking to my sister on the phone during my morning commute
627. Answered prayers
628. The atoning blood of Jesus
629. The hope I have because Jesus is my Savior
630. Conviction by the Holy Spirit is not condemnation

631. End of the year bonus from my employer
632. Celebrating Christmas, the day when the Word became flesh
633. Christmas morning church service
634. God being able to use anyone to fulfill his purpose
635. God using the ordinary to do the extraordinary

1000 Gifts - 586 to 605

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Continuing to count my precious gifts from God:

586. Scripture that gets my eyes focused in the right direction: Forget the former things; don't dwell on the past. See I'm doing a new thing. Isaiah 43:18-19
587. My friend's family having a safe trip as they traveled cross the country to their new home
588. As a non-morning person, learning to appreciate my quiet time with the Lord
589. Encouragement from my online friends
590. Safety while driving for myself and my family

591. A pastor who is burdened to follow God's leadership in his ministry
592. Reading this on a day when everything was going wrong
593. God not giving up on me
594. By His grace God sees my potential
595. Realizing that God is more interested in my character than my comfort

596. Doing a Bible study with my sister using The Gospel of Ruth
597. My Life Applications Study Bible
598. Social media to keep in touch with friends who live far away
599. The sale of my grandparents' home
600. Connecting with some wonderful bloggers who bless me through their writing

601. Learning that comparing myself to others is not only wrong but it's not fair to me
602. Encouraging comments on my blog
603. Choosing the best over the good by telling a friend that I could no longer assist him with a project
604. Direction from the Holy Spirit
605. The power of the Holy Spirit that resides within me

I Thank God

2011-11-26T09:30:00.000-06:00

As I was looking for a song appropriate for this Thanksgiving weekend, I found this song by eight year old, Rhema Marvanne. I was blessed by the lyrics and Rhema's beautiful voice, and I hope you are too!

Linking with Then Sings My Soul and Grace Cafe

His Word Friday - November 25, 2011

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Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name;

make known among the nations what he has done.

Sing to him, sing praise to him; tell of all his wonderful acts.

Glory in his holy name;

let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice.

Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always.

Remember the wonders he has done,

his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced,

O descendants of Israel his servant,

O sons of Jacob, his chosen ones.

(1 Chronicles 16:8-13)

Linking with Nicole at Coming Alive in Christ

Happy Thanksgiving

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Whereas, it is the duty of all nations to acknowledge the providence of Almighty God, to obey His will, to be grateful for His benefits, and humbly to implore His protection and favor;

Whereas, both the houses of Congress have, by their joint committee, requested me "to recommend to the people of the United Sates a day of public thanksgiving and prayer, to be observed by acknowledging with grateful hearts the many and signal favors of Almighty God, especially by affording them an opportunity peaceably to establish a form of government for their safety and happiness!"

Now therefore, I do recommend next, to be devoted by the people of the states to the service of that great and glorious being, who is the beneficent Author of all the good that was, that is, or that will be, that we may then all unite in rendering unto Him our sincere and humble thanks for His kind care and protection of the people of this country.

George Washingston, 1779

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The Stand

2011-11-19T08:30:00.000-06:00

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His Word Friday - November 18, 2011

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To the faithful you show yourself faithful,

to the blameless you show yourself blameless,

to the pure you show yourself pure,

but to the crooked you show yourself shrewd.

You save the humble, but your eyes are on the haughty to bring them low.

You are my lamp, O Lord; the Lord turns my darkness into light.

With your help I can advance against a troop;

with my God I can scale a wall.

2 Samuel 22:26-30

Linking with Nicole because some days I don't have much to say, but God's Word always speaks volumes.

1000 Gifts - 569 to 585

2011-11-17T18:35:00.001-06:00

It's hard to believe that it's been six weeks since I've written a post about gifts I've received from God. It's certainly not because I haven't been blessed -- I have been abundantly.

No, there's been no 1000 Gifts posts because there's been a lot going on...with family members' surgeries, increased work load and demand for my time. So, now that things have slowed down a bit I'm ready to catch up on my gift counting...

569. Realizing that if I don't blog most days of the week, it will be okay. I doesn't mean I'm a failure because at times more important things must come first.
570. My sister being pain free after her back surgery
571. My step-dad's surgery going well with no complications
572. For feeling God's presence on the days of family members' surgeries
573. Comfort knowing that others were lifting my family up my family

574. Men and women who work in the medical field using their knowledge and ability to help others in need
575. Medical staff who are caring and compassionate
576. Delicious hospital food
577. My pastor and minister of music visiting with my family at the hospital the day of surgery
578. God's presence when fear and anxiety enter my heart

579. God's goodness
580. Hope in trying times
581. Physical and mental rest after a stressful period of time
582. The Holy Spirit bringing Romans 8:28 to my mind one morning and then repeatedly seeing that verse in different places while I was going through a trial
583. God being more interested in my character than my comfort

584. It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. 2 Samuel 22:33
585. Realizing that my striving for consistency may at times be attempts at perfection

Linking with Grace Cafe

Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #22

2011-11-15T17:49:00.001-06:00

See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands;

your walls are ever before me.

Isaiah 49:16

I'm memorizing this verse to remind myself that even though people of this world may forget it, God never will.

What verses have you memorized to remind you of God's love?

When I Lay Down My Isaac

2011-11-14T08:00:00.000-06:00

From Carol Kent's book, When I Lay Down My Isaac:

"Abraham was willing to offer his son Isaac because he was convinced that God could raise Isaac from the dead if that were necessary to keep His promises." (Larry Richards) In other words, Abraham trusted in God's faithfulness so completely that he was willing to surrender what he deeply loved without being able to envision a specific or positive outcome.

God is not working toward a particular finish -- His purpose is the process itself. . .It is the process, not the outcome that is glorifying to God.

Those of us who are strong and able in the faith need to step in and lend a hand to those who falter, and not just do what is most convenient for us. Strength is for service, not status. Each one of us needs to look after the good of the people around us, asking ourselves, "How can I help?"

Linking with Barbara at Stray Thoughts.

This Is The Stuff

2011-11-05T09:30:00.000-05:00

Recently I've had to remind myself that God is more interested in my character than my comfort. He will use whatever He is necessary to refine me into the woman of God that He designed me to be.

Linking with Amy at Signs, Miracles and Wonders.

Everyday Miracles

2011-11-04T15:43:00.000-05:00

Photo Credit: Bui Linh Ngan (linh.ngan) ~ Creative Commons

He performs wonders that cannot be fathomed, miracles that cannot be counted. Job 5:9

Everything in life is a miracle. Every sunrise, sunset, smile, laugh, relationship, heartbeat, breath, each person, every human ability, every answered prayer. They are all miracles and gifts from God. Life itself is a miracle.

Quit looking for the big, earth-shattering miracles. Focus on all of the small miracles around you each day.

When the small miracles are added together, the result is the greatest miracle of all -- your life.

Slow down and experience life by appreciate all of the many blessings in your life and remember to give God the glory and praise that He deserves.

"To be alive, to be able to see, to walk.... it's all a miracle." Arthur Rubinstein

Linking with Spiritual Sundays and The Week in Words.

From the Archives

In His Word Friday - November 4, 2011

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David sang to the Lord the words of this song when the Lord delivered him from the hand of all his enemies and from the hand of Saul. He said:

"The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation. He is my stronghold, my refuge and my savior -- from violent men you save me. I call to the Lord, who is worthy of praise, and I am saved from my enemies. (2 Samuel 22:1-4)

Linking with Nicole at Coming Alive in Christ.

Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #21

2011-11-01T12:00:00.000-05:00

I know that you can do all things;

no plan of yours can be thwarted. Job 42:2 (NIV)

Linking with Living Proof.

Standing On The Promises

2011-10-29T12:08:00.000-05:00

The world we live in is an ever changing place which can cause us much stress. I think that's why God gave us some many promises in the Bible so we can cling to His Word and have hope during the tough times.

I love that I can claim and proclaim His promises because the Lord is faithful!

Linking with Then Sings My Soul.

Looking for Hope

2011-10-28T19:34:00.000-05:00

Photo Credit: Monica Arellano-Ongpin

This month has been very hectic for me, and as the month draws near I find myself in still in the midst of a trial and drained physicially and emotionally.

Last night before I went to sleep I told God that I trusted Him with my life, and asked God for help to get through this time of my life and for some sign of hope to help me hold on.

This morning I read the following:

Any trial a believer faces can ultimately bring glory to God because God can bring good out of any bad situation. When trouble comes, do you grumble, complain and blame God, or do you see your problems as opportunities to honor him? ~ Life Application Study Bible Devotion

This was convicting because I have been guilty of wanting to get out of trials instead of seeing God's purpose for the trials. I'm getting better at this, but I still complain, even if it's to myself, as my flesh wants to flee my circumstances.

How comforting to know we don't have to wait on our circumstances to work for our good. Instead we wait on God, because it's HIM who works for our good. He's trustworthy and faithful. {And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him. ~Rom. 8:28} ~ Proverbs 31 Ministries from Facebook

This gave me a sense of peace. It also made me smile because about two weeks ago as I was waking up one morning the Holy Spirit brought Romans 8:28 to my mind, and since that time He has continued to bring this verse to my mind. God keeps reinforcing His message to me that He is actively working in my life for good regardless of what I perceive.

Then before lunch I had two prayers answered. The first was something I earnestly wanted, but knew there was no way for it to come about without God's intervention. The second was something I had been praying about for months. These answered prayers are yet further affirmative that God cares for me, He hears me when I pray, He meets my needs and He's working actively in my life.

I don't know how much longer this trial will last. However, I do know that God is with me every step of the way working all things out for good, and when I need a renewed sense of hope, He will provide that too.

Linking with Life Unmasked, Brag on God, Spiritual Sunday, Week in Words and Soli de Grace.

In His Word Friday - October 28, 2011

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When Solomon had finished the temple of the Lord and the royal palace, and had succeeded in carrying out all he had in mind to do in the temple of the Lord and in his own palace, the Lord appeared to him at night and said:

"I have heard your prayer and have chosen this place for myself as a temple for sacrifices. When I shut up the heavens so that there is no rain, or command locusts to devour the land or send a plague among my people, if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.

(2 Chronicles 7:11-14 NIV)[emphasis added]

Linking with Nicole because some days I don't have much to say, but God's Word speaks volumes always.

What's On My Nightstand - October 2011

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This month I've read:

Hurricanes in Paradise by Denise Hildreth Jones. This is the story of four women from different walks of life who meet in the Bahamas. While in paradise, each must deal with issues from their past in order to move forward with their future. While some serious issues are dealt with, the author manages to inject humor in appropriate places to give this book a good balance. As the title indicates, a hurricane strikes the island, which was predictable, but it's not the main theme of the story. There was also some corporate sabotage which I didn't expect and which added a different twist to the story. This is the first book that I've read by this author, and I'm interested to read more by her.

2:46: Aftershocks: Stories from the Japan Earthquake by William Gibson, et al. This is an e-book which was complied days after the earthquake in Japan. Stories range from those who experienced the quake and its aftermath to others around the world as they attempted to reach their loved ones in Japan. The book provided great insight about what it was like in Japan before, during and after the earthquake and about how the citizens of Japan handled this epic event. I was struck by the Japanese fear of nature, but there was no reference to God. My only criticism of the book was that the article written by Yoko Ono was written in Japanese. Hers was the only article not to be translated for the book, and I didn't understand why.

Even Now (Lost Love Series #1) by Karen Kingsbury. This book tells the story of a young couple who are kept apart by their parents after an unplanned pregnancy. Years later the couple would be reunited by their child who has been raised by her maternal grandparents. While the couple's love has endured despite the years, they learn that their differing life experiences have shaped their opinions and political views differently and this threatens the sustainability of their relationship.

Ever After (Lost Love Series #2) by Karen Kingsbury. The couple from the preceding book is struggling to overcome their differences in order to make their relationship work while their daughter finds love and heartbreak. I found this book to be much more emotional than the first. Both were quick reads for me.

When I Lay My Isaac Down: Unshakable Faith in Unthinkable Circumstances by Carol J. Kent. The author gives an honest account of the days following her only child's arrest and conviction for first degree murder while drawing from the story in Genesis of God calling Abraham to offer Isaac on the altar. The book made me realize that we all have our own "Isaac" that we must surrender to God and for Carol it was her expectations for her son and his life. Carol also describes how her friends ministered to her and her family during the early days of their unthinkable circumstance which illustrates different and creative ways to minister to those who are in need of encouragement. I'm looking forward to reading more by this author.

The 7-Day Doubt Diet: A Devotional Companion for A Confident Heart by Renee Swope. This devotional series in drawn from the author's book, A Confident Heart, which I want to read now. The devotional highlights different ways we doubt and how to combat them. My favorite tip was to keep track of my negative thoughts for a week and then using Scripture find truth to replace the doubting thoughts.

A Daughter's Inheritances (The Broadmoor Legacy #1) by Tracie Peterson. The story has young love, various plots to disinherit an heir and the beginning of an adventure as one character sets off to search for gold in the Yukon. In the book you will see some characters place a higher value on money while others values ministry more, all of which to the detriment of their relationships. To contrast this, the main character born to wealth and prestige desires only to have a loving family. I love Tracie Peterson's novels, and this one did not disappoint me. I look forward to reading the next book in this series.

Powerful Prayers for Troubled Times by Stormie Omartian. This book convicted me to pray more and reminded me of the importance and the power of our prayers. While the book ends with twelve specific prayers regarding our country and its leaders, the book also addresses the importance of forgiveness, having hope and praying continually. This will be a book that I will read again.

Linking with 5 Minutes for Books.

Your Grace Still Amazes Me

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In His Word Friday - October 21, 2011

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Only those who sin will be put to death. Children won’t suffer for the sins of their parents, and parents won’t suffer for the sins of their children. Good people will be rewarded for what they do, and evil people will be punished for what they do.

Supposewicked people stop sinning and start obeying my laws and doing right. They won’t be put to death. All their sins will be forgiven, and they will live because they did right. I, the Lord God, don’t like to see wicked people die. I enjoy seeing them turn from their sins and live.

But when good people start sinning and doing disgusting things, will they live? No! All their good deeds will be forgotten, and they will be put to death because of their sins.

Youpeople of Israel accuse me of being unfair! But listen—I’m not unfair; you are! If good people start doing evil, they must be put to death, because they have sinned. And if wicked people start doing right, they will save themselves from punishment. They will think about what they’ve done and stop sinning, and so they won’t be put to death. But you still say that I am unfair. You are the ones who have done wrong and are unfair!

I will judge each of you for what you've done. So stop sinning, or else you will certainly be punished. Give up your evil ways and start thinking pure thoughts. And be faithful to me! Do you really want to be put to death for your sins? I, the Lord God, don't want to see that happen to anyone. So stop sinning and live! (Ezekiel18:20-32 CEV)[Emphasis added]

Linking with Nicole at Coming Alive in Christ.

Note to Self #12

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From a Facebook friend:

Sailors in the northern oceans have frequently observed icebergs traveling in one direction in spite of strong winds blowing in the opposite direction. The icebergs were moving against the winds, but how? The explanation is that the icebergs, with eight-ninths of their bulk under the water surface, were caught in the grip of strong currents that moved them in a certain direction, no matter which way the winds raged. In the Christian life, no matter how strongly the winds of passing opinions blow in opposition, the believer who has a depth of living in the currents of God's grace should move toward righteousness.

From Home Life:

We must be responsible stewards of what we've been given. How can we worship and honor the Lord if our bodies are deteriorating from neglect? ~ Ben Greenfield

From In Touch:

God knows how to solve your problems, but He may choose to require your cooperation, possibly even asking you to do something that seems unreasonable. But whenever we yield our flawed solutions and meager resources to Him and step out in obedience, He does great things in us and through us.

Prayer is not merely expressing our present desires. Its purpose is to exercise and train our desires, so that we want what He is getting ready to give us. His gift is very great, and we are small vessels for receiving it. So prayer involves widening our hearts to God. ~Augustine of Hippo

Linking with Barbara at Stray Thoughts.

Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #20

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It is God who arms me with strength

and makes my way perfect.

2 Samuel 22:33 (NIV84)

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You Are My Shepherd

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Linking with Amy at Signs, Miracles and Wonders.

In His Word Friday - October 14, 2011

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For men are not cast off by the Lord forever. Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction or grief to the children of men.

Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord.

Lamentations 3:31-33, 40 (NIV)

Linking with Nicole at Coming Alive in Christ.

1000 Gifts - 551 to 568

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Gifts from this past week...

551. When I drove through a yellow light, the Holy Spirit telling me that I really need to slow down and stop when the light is yellow and
552. That I need to stop making excuses why I'm disobeying traffic rules and God
553. Conviction that I need to heed spiritual warnings in order to avoid danger

554. A cheerful client that put a smile on my face and
555. Who reminded me to see the joy and blessings that are present every single day
556. The reminder that being joyful is a deliberate choice
557. The lesson that when I chose to see joy in every day there will no longer be "okay" days or "bad" days.

558. My Bible study group praying for my sister's surgery
559. Being part of a Bible study group that ministers to the needs of others
560. My sister's back pain being alleviated by the surgery
561. Friend's advice on what to give my three year old niece for vomiting

562. Over the counter cold medicine
563. Puffs Plus with lotion
564. Being able to pray to God about anything and everything
565. God is interested in every detail of my life

566. God is willing to listen to the things that bother me no matter how small
567. God helping to make decisions in my life, both big and small
568. Both of my co-workers' husbands getting new jobs after 6 months and 14 months of unemployment, respectively

Daybook - October 9, 2001

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Outside my window...78 degrees and partly cloudy

I am thinking...about everything that has happened already this month (both of my co-workers' husbands received new jobs which will require Stephanie and her family to move to Wisconsin, had company for the weekend, my sister had back surgery, watched my nephew and niece for my sister for several days while she recuperated from her surgery, I had a cold and missed some time from work) and what is going to happen the rest of the month (my birthday, I will say goodbye to my co-worker Stephanie, my stepdad will have surgery).

I am thankful...that God has provided jobs for my co-worker's husbands and that my sister's back pain is gone after her surgery and that she has had no complications.

In the kitchen...15 bean soup

I am going...back to work tomorrow after being out sick.

I am wondering...how much work piled up while I was out and how much farther behind I will be.

I am reading...Powerful Prayers for Troubled Times by Stormie Omartian

I am praying...that Stephanie's family has a smooth transition in their move to Wisconsin and that my stepdad's surgery is successfully with no complications.

I am looking forward to...seeing my friends at work tomorrow.

I am pondering..."Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things." Frank A. Clark

I have been convicted...to pray more faithfully for others.

One of my favorite things...is October days that we've been having with clear blue skies, cool temperatures in the morning and warming up in the afternoons with little or no humidity.

A few plans for the rest of the week...get together with my Bible study class on Friday, buy candy for the church Fall Festival and download the list from Operation Christmas Child regarding donations that can be placed in the shoeboxes.

A picture I am sharing...

Linking with The Simple Woman's Daybook

Lord Undo Me

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I don't really worship these days

I don't really stand up to praise you with songs

Or prayers or actions or with anything

I am full of all the right moves

I am full of all the right words

I am full of all the right religion

But it is all just illusion

I am really lonely, lost, calloused, jaded, cynical

Too religious, too realistic

And well really just to lazy to worship you anymore

I have lost my first love

I have lost the joy of your presence

But most of all I have lost the fear of your glory

Father I need to see you again

Like Isaiah I want to stand in awe of your glory

To fall down at your feet to come face to face with your

Perfection, radiance, goodness, holiness, awesomeness

I want to stand before you and see you

For who you are and me for who I am

I want to be undone

I want to know me for who I really am

I want to see the depths of my heart

And know that you are the only way

You are the only truth

You are the only life

I want to see me and understand

What it really must have taken for you to

Love me, care for me, see me,

Speak to me, want me, communicate with me

Die for me

Lord, I want to stand in that place where

All I can see is your glory and my sin

Because in that place I can't help but worship you.

Lord let me come undone

Undo my heart

Lord, undo my heart

Break down these walls that I love so much

No, wait don't, I'm scared I don't know if I can handle this

don't

But I can't live this way anymore

I can't stand here in this half-life

This going through the motions life

This not really alive life

Father, I need you so come in and do what you must

Cut out the tumor in my heart

Break down the walls that I love

Lord let me come undone

Undo my heart

Let me worship you again

BLAKE WILLIAMS

I recently heard this while listening to J. D. Chandler on KLove and later found the words on his Facebook page.

Mr. Williams' words spoke to me because I realized the continual need to surrender every part of my life to God so there are no barriers between Him and me so I can worship and serve Him wholeheartedly.

The idea of surrender is scary, but I know that's my flesh unwilling to give up control. In my heart I know I can surrender my all to God because He's in control and He loves me dearly, and until I surrender to Him I will never become all that He has planned for me to be.

Linking with The Week in Words and On Your Heart Tuesday.

Gifts Discovered on the Internet

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Gifts from God are everywhere. Here's some that I discovered this week while surfing the Web:

546. Alice's new love of her life, Tripp
547. Seeing the depth of a mother's love and that love in action on Tripp's mother's blog
548. Lisa's "I'm Afraid Of Being Stupid" which made me realize that God's grace is sufficient for me and all my stupid messes
549. Erin reminding me that I'm irreplaceable to God
550. Elysa and her family's heart for missions, particularly the children of Swaziland

In what unlikely places have you found gifts from God?

Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #19

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I say to myself, "The Lord is my portion;

therefore I will wait for him." Lamentations 3:24

I read this verse within the past week. It really spoke to me so I decided to commit it to memory.
How do you choose verses to memorize?

For more information about the Siesta Scripture Memory Team, visit Beth.

Strong Enough

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His Word Friday - September 30, 2011

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Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, "The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him." The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord. Lamentations 3:22-26

Linking with Nicole because some days I don't have a lot to say, but God's Word always speaks volumes.

I'm All Over The Place

2011-09-27T20:49:00.000-05:00

Photo Credit: Eric Chan (maveric2003) ~ Creative Commons

Today I received a phone call. A phone call I had been anticipating the past few days. A call that would send my thoughts and emotions off in different directions.

That call came this morning at 8 a.m. -- Mr. Bill, the father of a childhood friend passed away.

I have felt sadness because I know how much my friend's family is hurting. I feel their pain -- not as deeply, but I still feel it.

I feel helpless because I know that there are no words or covered dish that ease their sorrow. I want to do something, but I know the only thing I can do is to pray for them and to be a shoulder for them for cry on.

I am trusting that God is close to them and will provide my friend's family with the strength and comfort to face the coming days.

I am thankful to have known Mr. Bill -- a humble Christian man, full of integrity, a strong work ethic, who loved his family, church and community and was willing to serve them. A man who helped with our youth group and was willing to invest in my life and the lives of others.

I am rejoicing because this morning Mr. Bill saw Jesus for the first time face to face in heaven. How awesome is that?

And to be honest, that makes me a little jealous because I want to see Jesus too! But it's not my turn yet. God isn't finished with me here just yet.

I have been reminded how short our time on this earth is and that each moment is precious. Time is a commodity, and I've been convicted to use it wisely by investing in the lives of others.

So in the days to come, I'll be there for Mr. Bill's family, faithfully do the work God has given me while keeping my eyes on heaven.

Linking with On Your Heart Tuesday, Soli de Grace and Life Unmasked.

What's On My Nightstand - September 2011

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This month I read:

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen. This was my first time reading this classic, and now I'm eager to see the movie. I loved the witty dialogue and the development of the characters which made me change my initial perception of several people in this book. The book started slow for me since I was struggling to keep up with the many characters, but by the end I was sorry to get to the end of the book.

Made to Crave: Satisfying Your Deepest Desire With God, Not Food by Lysa TerKeurst. The author honestly tells of her struggle with food and her weight and her journey to control these issues which had seemed uncontrollable for so long. Even though I have not experienced these same struggles, I found many nuggets of truth in this book so many that I must re-read it in order to glean them all. The heart of this book is about turning to God instead of food or anything else to fill our most pressing need and to replace God's truth with the lies Satan would have us to believe.

Escape from the World Trade Center by Leslie Haskin. This is an autobiographical account of an insurance executive who worked in Tower 1 of the World Trade Center on September 11, 2001. This book vividly describes all that Ms. Haskin saw and heard that fateful day, and from her account it's understandable why she suffers from post-traumatic stress disorder. Additionally, this is a story of a woman who grew up in a Christian home who had been living away from God, but amid the tragedy and the horror she began to find her way back to the Lord.

Charlotte Figg Takes Over Paradise by Joyce Magnin. Charlotte Figg moves to a trailer park called Paradise after her husband dies. What she finds is a community of seemingly mixed matched people, but discovers that the common thread among them is the pain and suffering that they have each had to face in life. The author manages to interweave humor and Scriptural references while addressing the painful subject of spousal abuse.

Aesop's Fables came with my Kindle app download so I decided to read it. While I was familiar with some of the tales, I was surprised at how many stories actually make up this book. I appreciate the values that these tales impart, but I believe there's a better way to do so without referring to mythological gods.

Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy's Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back by Todd Burpo. I had heard about this book and got the opportunity to read it when a friend loaned it to me. Colton, the author's four year old son, gets a glimpse of heaven while he was seriously ill in the hospital. The story tells of how his parents and others come to know of his trip to heaven and describes heaven from a child's viewpoint.

For check out what other bloggers are reading, visit 5 Minutes for Books.

Working Definitions

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Use working definitions [with your children]:

1.    Obedience is doing what someone says, right away, without being reminded.

2.    Honor is treating people as special, doing more than what’s expected, and having a good attitude.

3.    Perseverance is hanging in there even after you feel like quitting.

4.    Attentiveness is showing people you love them by looking at them when they say their words.

5.    Patience is waiting with a happy heart.

6.    Self-discipline is putting off present rewards for future benefits.

7.    Gratefulness is being thankful for the things I have instead of grumbling about the things I don’t have.

The Parenting Book You Can Read to Your Kids by Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller

These are simple definitions for children, but a powerful reminder for this adult.
For more great quotes, visit Barbara at Stray Thoughts.

1000 Gifts - 531 to 545

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Still counting...

531. Protection of a friend's husband while he is serving in Iraq
532. New brakes for my car
533. Having my three year old niece ask questions about Jesus
534. Talking to my niece about Jesus and heaven
535. Seeing my niece's eyes light up when I told her that Jesus was coming back for us one day

536. Big, fluffy clouds that seem so close that you could reach up and touch them
537. Making progress with the work that has been in my inbox
538. Medicines for migraines
539. Being almost back to normal the day after a migraine
540. My sister being able to find something good about being in bed all day with severe back pain...she had a lot of quality time with the Lord

541. The accountability and sweet fellowship of #mym3 which gets me out of bed a little earlier for Bible study and prayer time
542. Abiding Fruit Bible study
543. Blessings received from connecting with other Christians on Facebook, Twitter and blogs
544. Seeing how God is using sermons on Sunday, my Bible study and devotions to communicate a single message to me
545. Seeing friends turn to God when they have challenges in life

From The Inside Out

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In His Word - September 23, 2011

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Yet their Redeemer is strong; the Lord Almighty is his name. He will vigorously defend their cause so that he may bring rest to their land. (Jeremiah 50:34)

He made the earth by his power; he founded the world by his wisdom and stretched out the heavens by his understanding. When he thunders, the waters in the heavens roar; he makes clouds rise from the ends of the earth. He sends lightning with the rain and brings out the wind from his storehouses. (Jeremiah 51:15-16)

Do not lose heart or be afraid when rumors are heard in the land; one rumor comes this year, another the next, rumors of violence in the land and of ruler against ruler. (Jeremiah 51:46)

Daybook - September 22, 2011

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Outside my window...79 degrees and cloudy.

I am thinking...I'm tired and I really should go to bed early.

I am thankful...for my health.

In the kitchen...red beans and rice.

I am creating...order in my office (or at least I'm trying to).

I am wondering...if we're going to have company this weekend.

I am reading...Heaven Is For Real by Todd Burpo with Lynn Vincent.

I am praying...that my sister's chronic back pain will be gone soon and for the families that I know that have lost loved ones this week.

I am looking forward to...getting a Kindle for my birthday.

I am hearing...a TV commercial.

I am pondering...how the Israelites repeatedly refused to listen to God's warnings as written in Isaiah and Jeremiah and wondering how often I have done the same thing.

One of my favorite things...watching the hummerbirds fly in my backyard as they "battle" to see who will get to drink from the birdfeeder.

A picture that I'm sharing...

Linking with The Simple Woman's Daybook.

Note to Self #11

2011-09-19T06:16:00.004-05:00

From Explore the Bible - Learner Guide, Fall 2011:

There is no real peace without grace. Grace initiates the journey, while peace eliminates hositility toward God. This is why we tell others about the gospel of Jesus Christ. ~ Dr. Paul Norman Jackson

From The Rurban Church:

Fear of criticism kills spontaneity; it prevents men from showing themselves and expressing themselves freely, as they are. Much courage is needed to paint a picture, to write a book, to erect a building designed along new architectural lines, or to formulate an independent opinion or an original idea. Any new concept, any creation, falls foul of a host of critics. Those who criticize the most are the ones who create nothing. ~ Paul Tournier, Guilt and Grace (New York, 1962), page 98.

Linking with Barbara at Stray Thoughts.

1000 Gifts - 511 to 530

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Still counting...

511. God revealing opportunities to me where I can serve after I prayed about wanting to make a difference for His kingdom
512. A call from sister telling me how God spoke to her through K-Love's programming after her praying to Him
513. Being safe and dry in my house during a hard downpour of rain
514. The conviction of the Holy Spirit
515. Seeing how God is using sermons, my Bible study, devotions and Christian radio programming over the last few weeks to guide and direct me in a certain direction

516. Being open to God's correction
517. God loving me enough to not leave me the way I am, but continually working in my life to make me perfect in Christ
518. Dining out with friends to celebrate a birthday
519. A fresh perspective after visiting my hometown
520. Visiting with a friend who has cancer

521. Hugs from friends
522. Reconnecting with old friends
523. Seeing members of my home church minister to my friend's family during their time of need
524. Watching my friend's wife take care of him during his illness
525. My co-worker's husband having several job prospects after a year of unemployment

526. Safety while driving on wet and flooded streets due to Tropical Storm Lee
527. No torandoes from Tropical Storm Lee
528. Seeing the sun trying to come out after four days of rain
529. Fully recovery from a stress fracture in my foot
530. The fact that Jesus knows exactly how I feel

Isn't He Good?

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2011 Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #18

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Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Romans 8:1 (NIV84)

For more information about joining the Siesta Scripture Memory Team, visit the Living Proof Ministries Blog.

Keeping Up Appearances

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Photo Credit: Dennis Hill (fontplaydotcom) ~ Creative Commons

Isaiah 3:16-26 describes not only how the women of Judah dressed -- with the finest clothes and jewelry, but also how they acted -- prideful and flirtatious.

The women of Judah chose to put more emphasis on their outer appearance than their relationship with God. They dressed to impress others and to be noticed. The women of Judah were so wrapped up in themselves that they were blinded to the needs of others.

There's nothing wrong with dressing up and looking good, but that shouldn't be our end goal. Our first priority should be making sure our hearts are clean. A pure heart will make a person beautiful from the inside out. There is nothing more beautiful than a person who humbly serves others and loves them unconditionally. Inner beauty like that will be obvious to everyone, and it will not fade with the passing of time.

Lord, Please cleanse my heart so that I may be beautiful from the inside out. Amen

Linking with Encouraging Word Wednesday and Spiritual Sundays.

Who Jesus Is To Me

2011-09-12T07:00:00.000-05:00

He is the first and last, the beginning and the end.

He is the keeper of creation and the creator of all.

He is the architect of the universe and the manager of all times.

He always was, He always is and He always will be unmoved, unchanged, undefeated and never undone.

He was bruised and brought healing.

He was pierced and eased pain.

He was persecuted and brought freedom.

He was dead and brought life.

He is risen and brings power.

He reigns and brings peace.

The world can't understand him, the armies can't defeat Him,

the schools can't explain Him the leaders can't ignore Him.

Herod couldn't kill Him, the Pharisees couldn't confuse Him

and the people could hold Him.

Nero couldn't crush Him, Hitler couldn't silence Him

and the New Age can't replace Him.

He is light, love, longevity and Lord!

He is goodness, kindess, gentleness and God!

He is holy, righeous, mighty, powerful and pure.

His ways are right, His words is eternal, His will is unchanging and His mind is on me.

He is my Redeemer, my Savior, my guide and my peace.

He is my joy, my comfort, my Lord and He rules my life.

I serve Him because His bond is love, His burden is light

and His goal for me is abundant life.

I follow Him because He is the wisdom of the wise,

the power of the powerful, the ancient of days, the ruler of rulers, the leader of leaders, the overseer of the overcomers, and the sovereign Lord of all that was and is and is to come.

He will never leave me, never forsake me,

never mislead me, never forget me and never overlook me.

When I fall, He lifts me up.

When I fail, He forgives.

When I am weak, He is strong.

When I am lost, He is the way.

When I am afraid, He is my courage.

When I stumble, He steadies me.

When I am hurt, He heals me.

When I am broken, He mends me.

When I am hungry, He feeds me.

When I face trials, He is with me.

When I face persecution, He shields me.

When I face problems, He comforts me.

When I face loss, He provides for me.

When I face death, He carries me home.

He is God.

He is faithful.

I am His and He is mine!

God is in control, I am on His side and

that means all is well with my soul.

Author Unknown

(emphasis added)

For more great quotes, visit Barbara at Stray Thoughts.

Lessons From 9/11

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Photo Credit: Jackie (Sister72) ~ Creative Commons

I couldn't bring myself to write about my experiences 10 years ago today. Even though I was thousands of miles away from the crash sites and a decade has passed, it seems like it was just yesterday and the pain feels anew today.

Instead, I've tried to focus on lessons that can be gleaned from September 11, 2001:

You can plan your day down to the minute detail, but ultimately God will determine what will happen.
Don't take anything or anyone for granted. In a split second your life can irreversible change.
Evil forces are all around us in this world, and the face of pure, unadulterated evil is an ugly one. However, God is in control of everything in this world, even though those determined to do evil.
Everyone will have defining moments in their life -- moments when they are challenged to persevere in the face of hardship. What will define us is not the trial we face, but our response to it.
Trust placed in anything or anyone other than God is misplaced, and if we are to boast, then it should only be to boast that we know the Lord.
Events in life will knock you down, and the best response is to get on your knees and pray.
Time doesn't heal all wounds...not the ones that cut you to your core. Time may ease the pain, but there will be occasions that will rip the scab off the wound, and the painful memories will be revisited.
Regardless of what happens in this world, you can trust in these truths: God is good, God is just, God is righteous, God is faithful and God is sovereign.

Linking with Spiritual Sundays, Soli de Gloria, On Your Heart Tuesday and 5 Minutes for Mom.

1000 Gifts - 491 to 510

2011-09-11T17:35:00.021-05:00

Continuing to count my many gifts....

491. God's protection for our nation
492. Military personnel and their families who sacrifice so much so the citizens of our nation can be safe and free
493. The unsung heroes of September 11, 2001
494. My citizenship as an American
495. My citizenship in heaven as a child of God

496. Seeing evidence that blended families can work
497. Finding a ringing cell phone in a restaurant parking lot and being able to return it to its owner
498. My nephew doing so well in school
499. My co-worker's husband getting a job after four months of unemployment
500. Spontaneous hugs from my niece

501. An immune system to fight off the viruses
502. A summer cold that was very, very mild
503. Seeing the Holy Spirit work in and through me...it's so encouraging to see spiritual progress in myself
504. Motivation to take care of my body
505. A post from Priscilla Shirer's blog that made me see my singleness in a different perspective

506. Sharing Scripture with my sister to encourage her
507. Ability to remember things
508. Discerning God's voice from the enemy
509. A client's diagnosis of no cancer
510. Reminder that one person can make a difference

In His Word - September 10, 2011

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"You are saying about this city, 'By the sword, famine and plague it will be handed over to the king of Babylon'; but this is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: I will surely gather them from all the lands where I banish them in my furious anger and great wrath; I will bring them back to this place and let them live in safety. They will be my people, and I will be their God. I will give them singleness of heart and action, so that they will always fear me for their own good and the good of their children after them. I will make an everlasting covenant with them: I will never stop doing good to them, and I will inspire them to fear me, so that they will never turn away from me. I will rejoice in doing them good and will assuredly plant them in this land with all my heart and soul. (Jeremiah 32:26-41)

Empty Me

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1000 Gifts - 471 to 490

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Still counting my gifts....

471. Having the privilege to vote for those who will serve in our local, state and federal government
472. Eating lunch at my favorite restaurant
473. Being able to have an extra long quiet time with God on Saturday mornings
474. So many verses in Isaiah 43 that speak to me
475. A friends' sister being declared cancer free

476. Being able to take part in significant events in my nephew's and niece's lives
477. My nephew having a good 1st day of school
478. Safety while driving on the interstate during a hard rainstorm
479. Seeing unity within my church
480. God being incomparable...there's no one like Him

481. God not remembering sins that have been forgiven (Isaiah 43:25)
482. Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you. Isaiah 46:4
483. God teaching me what is best for me
484. God directing me in the way I should go
485. God will not forget about me

486. Comfort and compassion for God
487. God using people to encourage me
488. Seeing the racial division that existed within my home state in a different light after reading The Help
489. The Lord going before me to guide me
490. The Lord being my rear guard to protect me

The Truth About The Little White Lie

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Photo Credit: Glen Van Etten (Glen's Pics) ~ Creative Commons

Satan loves to get us to think of certain sins as small and not that big of a deal. However, God sees all sin the same from the little white lie to those acts that we label as heinous. Each and every sin, no matter how small or large in our eyes, is punishable by death, and Jesus paid the penalty for every sin.

When we start labeling the size and severity of sin, we are buying into the devil's lie that some sins are just not that bad. Our actions will seem right to us, and we will excuse and justify our wrongdoing. We discount what our sin cost Jesus and forget the horrific cost that Jesus paid for us.

If the Enemy can get us to lie to ourselves about our "little" sin, he can and will do the same with other sins because he has found a foothold in our life. A foothold occurs when we relax our guard against spiritual attacks, and it can happen so imperceptibly because the devil is very sly and subtle in his attacks.

Thus, periodic exploratory searches for sin are critical to our spiritual health. Existing footholds may not be apparant which is why we need to ask God to search our hearts and minds and reveal sinful acts and thoughts to us so that we may confess and repent of them.

Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalm 139:23-24

Giving Myself A Break

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From "Permission to Exhale" by Joan C. Webb that was published in In Touch:

Burnout can happen in any facet of life when we cling to unreasonable expectations and ignore this truth: that only God is perfect.

Perfection on this earth isn't possible, and striving for what remains impossible is a guaranteed path to frustration and disappointment. While many of us know this in theory, we tell ourselves that we're just trying to do our very best, and to let go of our ideals would be to allow our lives to fall apart.

A freedom-producing truth I'm learning is that I'm not responsible for other people's reactions -- whether that person is a family member, friend, coworker, or stranger. I can express my beliefs or opinions, but if someone else doesn't concur, I don't need to try to change her mind or silently judge her. It just isn't my job! God is the Master, Protector, Provider, and Persuader. And although I'm grateful for the privilege of partnering with Him in His work here on earth, I know I can release others to Him because He really is sovereign.

For more thought provoking quotes, visit Barbara at Stray Thoughts.

Going Through The Motions

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In His Word - September 2, 2011

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This is what the Lord says:

"Cursed is the one who trust in man, who depends on flesh for his strength and whose heart turns away from the Lord. He will be like a bush in the wastelands; he will not see prosperity when it comes. He will dwell in the parched places of the desert, in a salt land where no one lives.

"But blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit."

The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?

"I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind, to reward a man according to his conduct, according to what his deeds deserve." (Jeremiah 17:5-10)

Never Married

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Photo Credit: Julie Pi (Cherry Pi) ~ Creative Commons

In Jeremiah 16:1-9 God told Jeremiah not to marry and have children and that he could not participate in any wedding celebrations or funerals. How lonely Jeremiah must have been -- to be the bearer of a message no one wanted to hear and then to be forbidden from socializing and from having a family of his own.

After a recent visit to the community where I grew up I read this passage, and it struck a chord with me because I can in a way relate to Jeremiah's pain because at almost 43 years old, I've never been married.

During my hometown visit, I heard the same question that I have heard now for 20+ years..."You're not married yet". This particular remark over the years has been posed as both a question and a statement, and it is usually followed by either "Well, I don't understand why not" or "You are smart not to have married".

These conversations are awkward and sometimes very painful for me as I try to be nice and polite. What I really want to say is, but never do is:

"I didn't choose this. This wasn't my plan. I'm not smart because if it was up to me I would be married by now and have children, but that wasn't God's plan."

As I gotten older and possibly wiser, I realize that by preventing me from having been married that God has protected me from things that could have caused me much pain and put me in situations I wasn't prepared for and never meant to handle.

Even though I accept that singleness is the best thing for me (at least for right now) because God wouldn't give me anything less than His best, some days are a real struggle for me. I don't always like my marital status nor am I always comfortable with it, but I'm learning to accept God's provision and trying to be content.

I don't know what God's answer is to my being married -- if it's a flat out "No" or if it's a "Wait" until the time is right. But in the meantime, I still hope, and I trust the Lord to direct my life in the way He wants it to go.

Linking with Spiritual Sundays and Soli de Gloria.

2011 Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #17

2011-09-01T04:49:00.000-05:00

"Everything is permissible for me" -- but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me" -- but I will not be mastered by anything. 1 Corinthians 6:12

To join the Siesta Scripture Memory Team, visit Beth Moore and post your own memory verse.

How to Wait

2011-08-31T17:41:00.001-05:00

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When we wait on the Lord, our focus should be on God not our problems and pain. By focusing on our circumstances, we will become discouraged, but focusing on God will change our attitude and give us a new perspective.

Waiting is hard, and we cannot do it with our own strength. We need God's strength which He will freely give to those who wait so we will be able to endure and perserve.

As we wait we should place on hope in God's Word. God always keeps His promises. Also, while waiting it is helpful to remember that God is sovereign over all and He is in control.

I wait for the Lord, my soul waits,

and in his word I put my hope. Psalm 130:5

Linking with Encouraging Word Wednesday.

Katrina: Looking Back

2011-08-29T08:00:00.131-05:00

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Six years ago today Hurricane Katrina hit the Gulf Coast, and many lives were changed that day, including mine. For years it has hard to find joy in the midst of the pain, but with time and the grace of God those wounds have healed.

So, today I'm counting the gifts that I received six years ago...

421. Friends who lived 60 miles north who let my family stay with them to ride out the storm
422. Not being at home when the storm came through and six trees fell on the house
423. God kept my family and friends safe during the storm
424. Getting back home safe after many detours and delays
425. Having hope in my heart that everything would work out

426. Finding a contractor within days of the storm to rebuild our house
427. Having that contractor and his wife become dear friends of my family
428.  Meeting my neighbors who lived two houses down from me and making friends with them
429.  Being able to go back to work 10 days after the storm
430. Being paid for the days I missed due to the hurricane

431.  Never being without food and water
432. Having running water for at least 12 hours a day during the early days after the storm
433. Being able to go to my office to shower on the one day when we didn't have running water (Yes, we have a shower at my office. It seemed a bit quirky when I first started working there, but I was truly grateful for it after Katrina.)
434. Generators which helped keep the food in the refrigerator and freezer from ruining and powered the air conditioning units so we could sleep in the coolness
435. Having electricity restored to our home two weeks after the storm

436. The crews from South Carolina who worked on our power lines so electricity could be restored
437. God giving me the strength, mentally and physically, to do the work that needed to be done
438. God keeping the men who cut the trees off my house safe while they did their work
439. Eating a hot meal
440. Being able to get cash so we could buy necessities

441. God keeping us safe on days when we traveled up to 90 miles away from our home in order to buy necessities
442. People telling me that they were praying for me and my family
443. Having food given to my family (the fresh pineapple seemed like a luxury)
444.  Learning to focus on what I needed and not what I wanted
445. The kindness of strangers

446.  The realization that before the storm I had more than I ever needed
447.  Restoration of cell phone service so I could call friends and family to check on them and to let them know we were okay
448.  Being able to help others who were in the same situation as my family
449.  Realizing what was missing in my life -- a strong relationship with God -- because I had drifted away
450. Turning to God and confessing my sins

451. Asking God for mercy
452. Crying out to God for help
453. Knowing that my only hope to survive the aftermath of the storm and every day thereafter was in Jesus
454. Finding a church home where I could be feed spiritually and fellowship with other believers
455. Friends who made me laugh on days when I didn't feel like it

456. Friends who listened when I needed to talk
457. Friends who prayed for me when I was crying
458.  Friends who made an extra effort to make my birthday special
459. Friends who let my family share holiday meals with them
460. Friends who loaned us their travel trailer so my family would have somewhere to live while our house was being rebuilt

461. Receiving forgiveness from God
462. Restoration of my spiritual life
463. Talking to God, especially on days when I felt I didn't have anyone I could turn to or anyone who would understand what I was going through
464. Appreciating the little things in life
465. Learning to trust God and His timing

466. The way God worked in my life
467.  The knowledge that Hurricane Katrina changed my life completely and I'm not the same person that I was and being so happy that this is true
468. Appreciating the love God showed me
469. God was always with me...every step of the way
470. Not wanting to backslide away from God

Time: How Are You Going To Spend It?

2011-08-28T21:58:00.000-05:00

"Today the average life span is 25,550 days. That's how long you will live if you are typical. Don't you think it would be a wise use of time to set aside some of those days to figure out what God wants you to do with the rest of them?" (Purpose Driven Life Calendar, Tuesday, January 1, 2007)

This quote reminds me that we are to count our days and to make each and every one of them count. By expressing the average life span in days, it puts things into perspective when I think of how many days have already passed in my life and knowing that I am not guaranteed tomorrow.

"Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leondardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson and Albert Einstein." H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

This quote reminds me that we will make time for the things we want or have to do. If things are not getting done, it's not because we lack time, but because are priorities are not properly aligned and/or we are trying to do more than God intended for us to do.

Daybook - August 28, 2011

2011-08-28T17:07:00.000-05:00

Outside my window...97 degrees and clear blue skies.

I am thinking...about the past. Twenty five years ago this week with the help of my family I moved four hours away to begin college. Six years ago today after living all of my life on the Gulf Coast I evacuated for the very first time because of a hurricane -- Hurricane Katrina.

I am thankful...for my church family and being able to worship freely with them.

In the kitchen...doggies bags from lunch at IHop. (Confession: Today was my first time eating at IHop, and I'm now wondering how I have missed eating there all these years.)

I am creating...a food plan so I can eat healthier and make better food choices.

I am going...to start exercising regularly tomorrow. My goal is five times a week with a combination of cardio, strength training and stretching.

I am reading...Made to Crave by Lysa TerKeurst which accounts for the food plan. I had already decided to begin exercising consistently so the book has just helped pull all the pieces together.

I am praying...for all those affected by Hurricane Irene -- for their continued safety as the storm continues and during the clean up process, that the insurance claims process will be quick and fair, that utilities services will be restored quickly, and that everyone will have their basic needs met.

I am hearing...the air conditioner running.

I am pondering...God's grace. I'm so undeserving, but He has chosen to lavish me with His love and grace. My mind has trouble wrapping around how much He loves me, but I'm so grateful that He does.

One of my favorite things...black and white movies. This weekend I've watched Young Doctor Kildare and Johnny Belinda, both of which has strong story lines without any explicitness.

A few plans for the rest of the week: Visit a friend who has cancer, meet with my boss to wrap up any loose ends before the holiday weekend, and make plans with the family for Labor Day.

A picture that I am sharing:

Photo Credit: NatalieMaynor (Creative Commons)

This picture was taken last summer in Bay St. Louis, Mississippi. With all the rebuilding that has occurred on the coast, this is, unfortunately, not an uncommon sight.

Linking with The Simple Woman's Daybook

I Refuse

2011-08-27T06:30:00.005-05:00

Jeremiah's Prayer

2011-08-26T18:54:00.000-05:00

I know, O Lord, that a man's life is not his own;

it is not for man to direct his steps.

Correct me, Lord, but only with justice --

lest you reduce me to nothing.

(Jeremiah 10:23-24)

The Power of One

2011-08-26T06:49:00.002-05:00

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"Go up and down the streets of Jerusalem, look around and consider, search through her squares. If you can find but one person who deals honestly and seeks the truth, I will forgive this city" Jeremiah 5:1

God made this statement prior to his judgment on Judah for their disobedience. This is not the first time God made such a remark about sparing a city if a small remenant of faithful followers could be found; he said the same about Sodom (Genesis 18:32).

One faithful person was all it would have taken for God to forgive the entire nation's sins. It just goes to show how powerful the influence of a faithful person is.

"It doesn't matter what I do. I can't make a difference by myself." are lies. We discount God's power and our influence as a Christian whenever we accept those lies.

We need to be faithful even when others are not. We need to remain faithful when we feel like giving up. We need to be faithful even when we can't see that we are making a difference. We need to remain faithful not for any acclaim that we may receive, but because it's the right thing to do. We need to be faithful because our Lord is faithful to us...always has been and always will be.

The Paradox of New

2011-08-24T18:22:00.000-05:00

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Five Minute Friday is a challenge to write for five minutes with no editing or second guessing.

This week's word prompt is NEW.

GO!

New is exciting. I've been waiting for this new thing for quite a while. It holds much hope and promise. It should be an exciting adventure. It will get me out of my groove; it will different

But the problem with new is that it's different. It's scary. This new experience will force me out of my comfort and will require me to do things I've never done before. It is risky; I could get hurt and fail. It will get me out of my comfort zone and there will be no going back. My insecurities and weaknesses will be revealed. New will require me to walk by faith.

Am I willing to sacrifice the comfort of my present for the rewards of new thing to come?

STOP

For more 5 minute Friday entries, visit The Gypsy Mama.

Practicing What Is Preached

2011-08-23T19:03:00.000-05:00

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In John 11 after Lazarus' death, Martha has all the right answers...her brother will "rise again in the resurrection at the last day" (verse 24) and that Jesus is "the Christ, the Son of God, who was to come into the world" (verse 27). But she lacked faith for when Jesus ordered that the stone be removed from Lazarus' tomb, she warned Jesus of the bad smell that would have been present with a body that had been in the grave four days (verse 39). It was if she was saying to Jesus too much time had passed for a miracle to be possible.

Good theology can make a person smart, but it doesn't ensure authentic faith. As I was scribbling notes last week for a sermon on this matter, my pastor stepped on my toes by saying: "Anyone can take notes during a sermon, but authentic faith will practice what is preached."

After I left the service I was reminded of James 1:22-24:

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like.

To be honest, I'm a good listener and note taker on Sunday, but when it comes to applying what I've learned, I fall short so many times. I agree with the message, but often I fail to take it to heart and make changes in my life. I have been convicted to live a more intentional manner and apply God's Word to my life. I want it to be evident that my faith in Jesus is real.

What's on My Nightstand - August 2011

2011-08-23T04:59:00.051-05:00

This month I have read:

Her Daughter's Dream by Francine Rivers is the sequel to Her Mother's Hope. This novels covers the lives of three generations, and as with the first book there continues to be misunderstandings and secrets which creates rifts between mothers and daughters. Each mother did what she thought was best for her child, and each generation tries to do better than the last, but ends up making some of the same mistakes.
The Help by Kathryn Stockett is set in Jackson, Mississippi, in the early 1960s and what happens when twelve black maids with the assistance of a recent white college graduate write a book about what it's like to work in white households. My favorite character was the maid, Aibileen, for her wisdom and courage. This novel made me see the racial division in my home state during this era in a way that I have never considered it before. I found this book both entertaining and thought provoking. My only criticism would be the author's misuse of the Lord's name and a couple of scenes which were (to me) a bit crudely described.
The Scribe which is the last novella in The Sons of Encouragement series by Francine Rivers. The Scribe is a fictionalized account of the live of Silas from his legalistic upbringing to his surrendering all and becoming an apostle of Christ. It was interesting to see how Silas' life intersected with other well-known apostles, such as Paul, Peter, Luke and Timothy.

1000 Gifts - 401 to 420

2011-08-22T18:47:00.032-05:00

Still counting my gifts....

401. For the LORD God is a sun and shield; the LORD bestows favor and honor; no good thing does he withhold from those whose walk is blameless. Psalm 84:11
402. Compassionate Bible teachers
403. Winning Mercy Me's "Move" CD
404. Ability to memorize Bible verses
405. Being able to recall Bible verses when I need them the most

406. A friend asking for prayer
407. News that a friend will be a great-aunt again
408. God always making a way
409. The healing of my co-worker's daughter after battling an eye infection for months
410. Receiving grace from another person

411. Evidence that little things done consistently over time will have a big impact
412. A timely reminder to do everything for the glory of God
413. Free Kindle books
414. My nephew's first day of 5th grade being a good one
415. Having lunch with my sister on her birthday

416. Shopping with my mom
417. New clothes that were on sale
418. Returning to work after an extended weekend to find only one document in my inbox
419. God using my blog to reveal things to me
420. Realizing that striving for perfection is a waste of time and wears me out

Note to Self #10

2011-08-22T05:58:00.029-05:00

From a Facebook friend:

A person's perception is their reality! Unfortunately, some folks are unwilling to hear anything of the truth, preferring their perception instead! At that point, loving prayer is the only possible solution.

From A Holy Experience:

It’s only pride’s hunger for perfection that paralyzes a heart, keeps us enslaved to fear. Pride is fear’s father and pride is the kin to all cowards.

From another Facebook friend:

The contrast is stark in the Sermon on the Mount between religion of pretend and that of sincerity. God eventually calls everyone's bluff. The real test now is what you are in secret with God, with no one else looking. That is the type of believer you are: One who has the real stuff or a facade. God will reveal it so get the real thing.

From @JuanaMikels on Twitter:

Temptations are like walking past a group of evil men talking and hearing what they said as I walked down the road. Just keep walking.

In His Word

2011-08-20T10:10:00.000-05:00

But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed. We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all. Isaiah 53:5-6

He said, "Surely they are my people, sons who will not be false to me"; and so he became their Savior. In all their distress he too was distressed, and the angel of his presence saved them. In his love and mercy he redeemed them; he lifted them up and carried them all the days of old. Isaiah 63:8-9

While I'm Waiting

2011-08-20T09:11:00.000-05:00

2011 Siesta Scripture Memory Verse #16

2011-08-15T22:16:00.001-05:00

Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge

against one of your people,

but love your neighbor as yourself.

I am the Lord.

Leviticus 19:18 NIV

1000 Gifts - 381 to 400

2011-08-15T18:28:00.039-05:00

Gifts from God:

381. The medical staff who ministered to my niece during her recent late night visit to the emergency room
382. My niece's quick recovery from a virus
383. The patience of our office's computer technician while debugging my computer
384. The transparency of children
385. Umbrellas on rainy days

386. Knowing there's a rainbow somewhere after a rainy day even though I may not always see it
387. People who are willing to do the right thing regardless of the cost
388. Energy and strength to make it through the day after a night with little sleep
389. Feeling close to God when I write
390. Isaiah 58:11: The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.

391. Four day weekend
392. Spending time with my mom
393. Peace coming over me while writing about a situation that troubled me
394. Sharing books with my sister who loves to read as much as I do
395. A compliment from a stranger

396. Hot shower
397. Philippians 1:6 - being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.
398. Being able to sleep peacefully after a nightmare
399. Receiving medical test results the same day as the test
400. Books that make me think

What gifts have you received from God?

Note to Self #9

2011-08-15T06:24:00.008-05:00

From Open Windows:

Worship comes before work. Prayer precedes programs. The one who worships God and prays to Him will never lack for opportunities to work.

It's all about putting God first. When we do that, everything else will fall into place.

From Making Disciples on Facebook:

You can't invite Jesus into your life and then call interference when things don't go your way. ~ Miguel Labrador

From my perpetual calendar at my office:

God wants nothing from us except our needs, and these furnish Him with room to display His bounty when He supplies them freely...Not what I have, but what I do not have, is the first point of contact between my soul and God. ~ Charles H. Spurgeon

Ancient Words

2011-08-13T15:29:00.000-05:00

Beauty

2011-08-12T15:23:00.000-05:00

This is my first attempt at Five Minute Friday. If you’re not familiar with Five Minute Friday, it works like this

1. With the prompt given, write for 5 minutes – unedited without worrying about all the things writes normally stress over.
2. Link back to the original Five Minute Friday post
3. Encourage the person who linked up before you with a comment

So, today’s prompt is...Beauty.

GO!

Beauty...a word that makes me happy and brings so some many pretty images to mind.

But what is beauty? The old adage is that it’s in the eye of the beholder which is true, but I think, unfortunately, people often look more to the outside appearance than to the heart.

We spend countless dollars on lotions and potions every year to attain and keep beauty. But beauty doesn’t come in a bottle. Beauty comes from a heart that is full of love.

To see beauty in this world like God does we must look beyond the superficial. That means seeing the beauty amidst the imperfections and wrinkles.

STOP

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Godly Friendships

2011-08-12T13:47:00.000-05:00

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The adage if you want a friend you have to be a friend is true, and if you want a godly friend you must develop the traits of a godly friend.

A godly friend places a high priority on spiritual growth. She will urge you to do what is right (Hebrews 10:24). She will listen when you talk about what God is doing in your life and will share with you her own personal testimony. She will encourage you to use your spiritual gifts for the Lord, and she will also partner with you in ministry (Acts 11:25-26).
If you become complacent in your walk with Christ due to sin, begin following false teachers or believe the lies of Satan, a godly friend will correct, rebuke and encourage you. The rebuke and correction may sting, but you can know that your friend is motivated by her love for you (Proverbs 27:6) because she does not want anything to hinder your walk with Christ.
A godly friend will pray for you (James 5:16), and she will pray with you when you meet together (Acts 20:36). A godly friend realizes that one of the greatest ways that she can build you up is through prayer. She will pray that you grow in wisdom so you will know God better (Ephesians 1:17), be strengthened by the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 3:16), be “rooted and established in love” (Ephesians 3:17) and be “active in sharing your faith (Philemon 1:6). You can be confident when you ask her to pray for you that she will do so faithfully asking that the Lord’s will be done in your life.
A godly friend knows you well and loves you unconditionally. She accepts you just the way you are (Romans 15:7) and appreciates the things that make you who you are – your personality, your preferences, your strengths and your limitations. She will patiently bear your idiosyncrasies and your weaknesses (Ephesians 4:2b).
The one thing a godly friend will not accept is your sin. She will neither condone nor participate in your sin (Psalm 1:1). She will also not judge you because of your sin. A godly friend realizes that judging and criticizing you because of your sin is of no benefit to you and that it is not her place to judge (Matthew 7:1-5).
A godly friend strives to live in harmony with you. She is not prone to quarreling or gossiping because she knows that these activities will divide the best of friends (Proverbs 16:28). She does not get angry easily (1 Corinthians 13:5c), and she is able to overlook offenses (Proverbs 19:11)
When you have hurt her, a godly friend is quick to forgive. She understands that if she refuses to forgive you, her heart will not be right with God,(Matthew 5:23-24). A godly friend appreciates the mercy that God has freely given to her, and she is willing to share that mercy with you (Ephesians 4:32b). A godly friend not only forgives, but she forgets (1 Corinthians 13:5d) because she does not want to hold on to anything that could grow into bitterness and resentment.
A godly friend is committed to you regardless of the circumstances (Proverbs 17:17). When you succeed, she will rejoice with you without becoming jealous (1 Corinthians 13:4), and when adversity strikes, she will not abandon you like fair weather friends will do when the going gets tough. During hard times, a godly friend will comfort you, support you (Galatians 6:2) and encourage your faith in God (1 Samuel 23:16).
A godly friend is humble, and she is willing to do whatever is necessary to help you (Philippians 2:4). She would never expect repayment for her acts of kindness (1 Corinthians 13:5b). Her service is not motivated by selfish ambition desires (Philippians 2:3) or the praise of you or anyone else (1 Thessalonians 2:6). Instead, she serves you and others in her life to please God (Hebrews 12:28).

At the center of every godly friendship you will find Jesus Christ who calls all obedient believers his friends (John 15:14). A wonderful chain of events will occur when you spend time developing your friendship with Jesus: the more time spent with Jesus, the more you become like Him and you will become a better friend to others. You should not allow anything to cause you to neglect your friendship with Jesus. When your relationship with Jesus deteriorates, every other relationship in your life will suffer. Your friendship with Jesus should be your most important relationship.

Things to Ponder:

1. What attribute do you most value in a friend? Do you possess this trait? If not, what can you do to develop it?

2. Do your friends make you a better person and Christian? Why or why not?

3. Are your friends better people and Christians because of what you contribute to their lives? Why or why not?

4. Who is your best friend – Jesus (John 15:14), the world (James 4:4), or a person that God has placed in your life? If your best friend is not Jesus, why? What do you need to do so that your friendship with Jesus has top priority?

In His Word - August 12, 2011

2011-08-12T09:00:00.010-05:00

Prove by the way you live that you have repented of your sins and turned to God. Matthew 3:8 NLT

This is what the Lord say -- your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go. Isaiah 48:17

Trusting the Potter

2011-08-09T18:14:00.001-05:00

Photo Credit: Peter Shanks (BotheredByBees ~ Creative Commons)

"Woe to him who quarrels with his Maker, to him who is but a potsherd among the potsherds on the ground. Does the clay say to the potter, 'What are you making?' Does your work say, 'He has no hands'?" (Isaiah 45:9)

This verse made me think of how many times I've asked God:

What are you doing?

Don't you see this mess?

You need to fix this.

But I never thought that I was quarreling with the Lord Almighty. But truthfully I was second guessing Him, His wisdom and His sovereignty over the situation. I was so focused on my own discomfort because of my circumstances that God had allowed to touch my life that I forgot how much He loves me and how valuable I am to Him.

The clay doesn't tell the potter how to form it. The clay has no idea of its potential, and even if it did, the clay has no idea of how to achieve its potential without the gentle guidance of the potter. Sometimes the potter has to squish the clay and start all over in order to achieve the desired results. The clay has to trust the Maker and remember that the safest place to be is in the hands of God.

1000 Gifts - 361 to 380

2011-08-08T15:39:00.028-05:00

361. Naps on rainy days
362. Transparency of children
363. Seeing a new believer baptized
364. Mixed flower arrangements
365. The Lord who daily bears our burdens (Psalm 68:19)

366. Dependable transportation
367. Good health
368. The extra energy I have after exercising
369. Computer technician who can fix our computer problems at work
370. God's mercy

371. A hairdresser who cuts my hair as I request and makes suggestions that are flattering to me
372. Indoor plumbing
373. Faith from God to believe in Jesus
374. Meeting an important deadline at work
375. Having all my needs met

376. Opportunities to grow spiritually
377. Feeding on God's Word
378. Faithful friends
379. Laughing until my side hurts
380. God's perfect plan for me

Note to Self #8

2011-08-08T04:40:00.008-05:00

From Life Application Notes for Proverbs 28:2:

When enough people live for themselves with little concern for how their actions affect others, the resulting moral rot contaminates the entire nation. Are you part of the problem...or the solution?

From a friend's Facebook status:

you may even feel like so much is going on..that you feel buried...underneath the load..totally lost ..not even the Lord knows where you are...just remind yourself...buried things die...if you still breathing then you have mistaken the buried for a "planting"..God has planted you where you are....just hang in there for your next step...sometimes all it takes is to go ahead and do that..take one more step...

From Turning Points by David Jeremiah:

If there are some you find it difficult to submit to, make it a practice to pray diligently for them. It's hard to resist someone you're praying for. Submission to authorities shows we understand the nature of authority.

You're Never Alone

2011-08-07T05:31:00.001-05:00

When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and

when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you.

When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned;

the flames will not set you ablaze. Isaiah 43:2

Blessings

2011-08-06T04:57:00.002-05:00

Sometimes blessings from God don't come in the form that we anticipate, and sometimes those blessings bring pain before relief, but throughout it all, we can be assured that He knows what is best for us.

National Day of Prayer

2011-08-05T07:19:00.028-05:00

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In response to Texas Governor Rick Perry call for a national day of prayer and fasting, thousands have gathered today in Houston, Texas to pray for our nation.

I love that I can participate in this prayer event from my home because: 1) the live web stream and 2) more importantly, that God can and will hear my prayers regardless of where I am.

Dear Heavenly Father,

Your works and character are so amazing that it boggles my mind. You are the one true God who created the heavens and the earth, who sustains all life and who establishes governments.

Lord, You have blessed our nation so much and we have taken those blessings for granted. You are compassionate, loving and slow to anger for which I am truly thankful.

I confess the sins that we Americans, including myself, have committed against You. Our currency has "In God We Trust" imprinted on it, but Lord, we have turned from You and have placed our trust in worthless idols. As a nation we have become deaf and blind to You and Your ways. We no longer value the things that You do.

Forgive us, Lord, for rebelling against You. We need You, Lord Jesus. Open our ears so we will hear You. Open our eyes so we will see You all around us. Soften our hearts so we will humble ourselves before You. Cleanse us from all unrighteousness so we may be blameless in Your eyes and so we can reflect Your glory to the lost of the world. Give us a willing spirit to obey You regardless of the cost. Renew within us a right spirit so we will be just and faithful. Incline our hearts to You so will seek You and Your wisdom. I pray that our nation will return to You and that You will grant us favor.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen

Prayer for Revival

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Photo Credit: Leland Francisco (Lel4nd ~ Creative Commons)

Create in me a clean heart, O God.
A heart...that won't run after worldly goods and pleasures; that is eager to do good and avoids evil; that is full of love and humility; that takes no pride in my accomplishments or the blessings You've bestowed on me; that turns to You and not the world; that puts You before anything and anyone else.

Renew a right spirit within me.
A spirit...that is completely committed to You; that is obedient regardless of the cost; that is not double-minded; that is resolved to know You deeply; that is focused on eternity; that is willing to allow You to saturate every part of me and every aspect of my life.